A new dawn

There’ve been times in my life that I’ve felt I am not being myself…Each time I thought its the new me, and I’ve changed…somehow that kept me content through any stupidities that I would be making too…But the truth is I hadn’t changed a bit… I think we don’t change…We don’t keep the capacity to change… Even when one says i’ll change for you, its really not in their hands… You try, you succeed for sometime too, but the truth is you can’t just change into another being..

So I believe all those times I thought I’d changed, I actually hadn’t..Because nobody does!.. You just take the easier route…grieving at yourself for being the victim of circumstances… and blaming all that is not working out in your favour on either your past or your mental state. But the truth is you are actually having a great time being reckless and irresponsible. The truth is that you actually are a victim of laziness…and we all are, everyday!.. but that doesnt justify it. Just because some others do something bad, doesnt mean I am allowed too, or am I!

Even if you don’t regret all that you haven’t been able to do so far, there is still that one thing that we need to change… Not ourselves, but our attitudes. We are stronger than that laziness that comes in our way of improvement, stronger than irresponsibility and stronger than the wrong. We are going to use our talents and strengths everyday. We are going to stand on our feet. We’ll stop waiting for others to push us around, or even provide us a little bit of  support everyday. Our lives are not to be wasted. We are not to be wasted. We are stronger than anything lying out there. We are not waiting to hear anyone’s orders anymore.

We have got to use our bodies to the fullest, and at our very will, before they paralize on us and stop functioning!


4 thoughts on “A new dawn

  1. In one sense, I agree with you–we don’t change, we may modify our behaviors, but we cannot touch the source of those behaviors (our hearts). But, I don’t believe that leaves us hopeless when it comes to experiencing positive and necessary change. God, who created our hearts knows them better than we do and is able to alter there orientation from one that denies Him and leans towards destruction (sin) to one that acknowledges Him as Lord and leans toward construction. There is hope, it just doesn’t come from us; though it can abide within us–all is Christ. :)

  2. sal says:

    In order for God to change anything .. one must have a willpower of own to change.. one must want to change too.. God will help no doubt.. but if we reconcile with what we are and not struggle to reshape ourselves.. then I think God has many other more enthusiastic people to handle. He will let us be.

  3. websurfer says:

    I agree with the view that throughout our lives we may find it hard to change a few fundamental qualities that are ingrained in ourselves. Maybe the ones what define us, but i do believe that honest inward reflection, a positive outlook, a sincere mentor, strong faith with perseverance and life experiences are some of the factors which go a long way in not only shaping the lives we live but also carve the person we become in the process.

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